Love or Respect

I am sorry, I deserve my respect to hell with your love. There can be respect without love but never love without respect. I love my space and I sure want my well earned respect reason being, I try my level best to respect others (however much it is killing me) so the least they can do is respect me back(not love)

Totally, some people do not deserve respect at all and others want to treat others like they are slimy, good for nothing fools that exist within their viscinity. This cuts accross: friends, family, colleagues even random people!(call them strangers)

I think most of us have our own imagination of respect and love. This is how I describe respect " I trust that every sound minded person (child or adult) will do what they do with a good reason in mind (at least in their opinion)." My duty therefore is to treat them as such not like " what the hell were you thinkg?!" ofcourse, if it is a child I can go ahead to correct them that perhaps this way should have been a better way. Parent, if you did that to your 7 year old, you'd be their hero FOREVER.

I dislike it when a colleague, sometimes even of a lower rank than mine, disrespects me. Then I completely hate it when someone who thinks they are your superior by vitue of the office they hold disrespects me. Now, when my supervisor disrespects me, our relationship is tarnished and for their information, in my books, they go a rung lower. So, watch out people!

Yes, I am ranting because its good therapy to put things out there rather than bottle them up. So thanks for bearing with me through this post :))

Bottom line, give me respect any day!

Too much

Lately I have learnt what is really meant by the old saying "Too much of anything is always bad."  Is it really bad or really irritating?

I love coffee a great deal. Except I am not quite sure whether it is the aroma I fancy or the taste. I guess abit of both. So I bought this pack of roasted coffee. Apparently arabica coffee is the best the world over. And it is grown on the slopes of mountains. We grow alot of that coffee in uganda and please believe me,there is nothing better than Ugandan coffee I am proud to say.

Good as it is, I am growing weary of it. The thing is, I kept this pack of coffee in my drawer where I keep afew snacks at work and apparently the aroma has infilrated even the serviettes I keep in there. The aroma is too rich and too domineering. Every time I bite a cookie, it smells of coffee; then I take a servitte to clean the crumbs on my mouth, it smells of coffee; I decide that to get some sugar from the drawer to add to my juice, it smells of coffee.

what is it with this coffee!!! Has it heard that too much of anything is bad. Well, I heard but now I believe!